Have they ever told you once that your a embarrassment ? My mom sure did. It frustrates me more when she says that I'm weak and defenseless when I'm not . She says that she understand me, but she doesn't . She never fought for her friends and I had . I'm always different . I'm sure I'm not her daughter . I look nothing like her,my personality is different and unique . She wants to break down all individuality . She is the worst.